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The Direct-Secondary Holder Playbook: Transfer Verdict to Cleared Queue

From one named private company, issue a dated transferability verdict in a day and, if open, a 25 to 50 holder queue with vesting bands, timing flags, and a cleared script.

22 min readLast reviewed November 3, 2026Read as Markdown

Key takeaways

  • Check transferability before you source anyone: OpenAI and Anthropic have published policies saying unapproved direct sales, SPV interests, tokenized interests, and forward contracts are void, and under a void policy the buyer carries the loss.
  • In Hiive's platform statistics, 28% of direct transfers in one year did not deliver shares (18% lost to ROFR exercise plus 10% canceled), so a buyer should budget to lose deals.
  • In Refolk's index, 20% to 24% of sampled profiles with an "ex-Stripe" or "ex-Databricks" headline still list that company as their current employer, so a holder row needs a profile end date, not just a headline.
  • The median tender administered on Carta has let no former employees take part, which makes ex-employees the group most likely to need a direct buyer.
  • ISOs generally have to be exercised within 90 days of leaving to keep ISO status, so a holder inside that window may hold unexercised options rather than stock, and extended windows remove the deadline entirely.
  • Vesting estimates built from public tenure dates should be reported as bands with a confidence label, because the only public benchmarks are startup grants, such as a 0.61% to 3.5% interquartile range for first engineers.

This playbook is for early-stage investors, platform and talent partners at funds, and angels who want to buy common stock in one named late-stage private company directly from the people who hold it. Starting from the company name, it gets you to a documented transferability verdict within one working day. If the company is open, it then gets you to a queue of 25 to 50 former employees, each with a vesting band, a timing flag, and a first-contact script that compliance has cleared. Most secondary guides are written for sellers. This one is for the buyer who has to find and qualify them.

What has to be true before you source a single seller?

First, the shares have to be legally transferable to you, and you need to know that before you contact anyone. Several large private companies now publish notices saying any transfer without board approval is void, and when a trade is void, the buyer takes the loss.

OpenAI and Anthropic have both published these policies, and both name the same list of targets:

  • Direct sales of shares
  • SPVs (special purpose vehicles, entities that pool many buyers behind one holder of record)
  • Tokenized interests
  • Forward contracts (agreements to deliver shares later, usually after a liquidity event)

OpenAI's notice is blunt: "Any attempted transfer - which includes any pledge, encumbrance or other similar disposition - that does not follow this requirement is void." Anthropic went further and published a blocklist of unauthorized platforms that included well-known secondary marketplaces. So a trade can be blocked even when it runs through a marketplace.

The legal distinction matters. A voidable transfer can be unwound. A void transfer never happened. Gabriel Shapiro's reading of these policies is that "Sellers can retain both the shares and the money received, while buyers can only seek recourse upstream." All the risk sits with you. A single missed policy page can wipe out a whole sourcing pipeline, which is why every step about people comes after the steps about the company.

A void transfer can leave the seller holding both the shares and your money.

Transferability is not one question. It is a stack of restrictions, and a "no" at any layer ends or reshapes the deal.

Layers that decide whether a direct secondary can close

  1. Published company policy
    Void-transfer notices on the website, support pages, or in press coverage
  2. Governing documents
    Charter, ROFR and co-sale agreement, notice periods, and the company-then-investor cascade
  3. Company liquidity programs
    Tender offers, their timing, and whether former employees can take part
  4. Securities law conduct
    Accredited purchaser, no general solicitation, and broker exemption limits
  5. The holder's own position
    Vested stock or unexercised options, exercise window, and tenure
A direct purchase has to clear every layer, from the company's published policy down to the individual holder's actual position.

ROFR (right of first refusal) is the company's right, and often its investors' right after it, to buy the shares on the exact terms you negotiated. It does not stop a deal from existing. It decides whether you or the company ends up with the shares.

The procedure, start to finish

The method has eight stages. The first three settle transferability, the next three build and rank the queue, and the last two clear and send outreach. Expect about one working day to reach the verdict, roughly two more days to a ranked queue, 2 to 5 days of compliance review, and then a ROFR window of typically 30 to 90 days once the seller files a transfer notice.

Target company to a cleared holder queue

  1. Run the policy sweep
    Search the company website, support pages, and press for transfer-restriction or void notices. Done when you hold a dated screenshot and a provisional verdict: void-policy (stop), tenders-only, or open with ROFR.
  2. Pull the governing documents
    Have counsel check any publicly filed charter or ROFR and co-sale agreement, in parallel with the sweep. Done when the ROFR cascade and notice periods are logged, or marked "not public".
  3. Check the tender calendar
    Check press reports and published tender data for recent or expected tenders. Done when the file shows whether a tender ran in the last 6 months and whether ex-employees were eligible: yes, no, or unknown.
  4. Build the holder list
    Source 25 to 50 former employees from employment history, with join date, leave date, and title held at the target. Done when every row has tenure and title evidence and a profile end date.
  5. Assign vesting bands
    Apply tenure, level at the target, and stage at join against benchmark ranges. Done when every row has a band with a stated confidence.
  6. Set timing flags
    Mark rows inside 90 days of departure, rows under a known extended window, and rows likely eligible for a tender. Done when each row is labeled now, wait, or skip.
  7. Clear the script with compliance
    Have counsel or compliance review the script against the no-general-solicitation, accredited-buyer, and broker rules (2 to 5 days). Done when a signed script is on file.
  8. Send 1:1 outreach and run the transfer notice
    Message pre-qualified holders one at a time. After terms are agreed, the seller files the transfer notice and the ROFR window runs, typically 30 to 90 days.

Some practitioners check tenders after sourcing. I put the check before sourcing because a tender changes how urgent each holder is. Someone who can sell into a tender next quarter is a different prospect from someone who has been shut out of every company program.

The transferability verdict: open with ROFR, tenders-only, or stop

The verdict has three possible values and comes from a half-day policy sweep plus a two-hour tender check. The governing documents run in parallel and add precision. They do not hold up the verdict unless they turn up a restriction.

The policy sweep (half a day)

Do not limit the search to the investor relations page. These policies show up on support pages and in press coverage, so a clean website search can be a false negative. Run at least these searches:

  • The company name plus "transfer restrictions" plus "void"
  • The company name plus "SPV" and plus "secondary"
  • The company's help or support center, searched for "shares", "transfer", and "tokenized"
  • Press coverage of the company's tenders, which often mentions transfer policy in passing

What it proves: a published notice is the company stating its position, and it is decisive. When it lies: finding nothing proves only that you found nothing. Screenshot every search result page with the date visible, including the empty ones, so the file shows what was checked and when.

The governing documents (parallel, 1 to 3 days if anything is public)

Counsel checks any filed charter or ROFR and co-sale agreement. Where these appear as exhibits to public filings, they show the real timing terms. Most late-stage private companies will have nothing public, and "not public" is an acceptable logged value. What you cannot do is assume the default terms.

The defaults themselves are disputed, as the table shows.

SourceCompany windowInvestor windowTotal or closing
NVCA model (Hustle Fund reading)15 days10 days45-day notice
NVCA model (Vaquill reading)30 daysn/an/a
Westawayabout 30 dayspro rata afterclosing often 60 to 90 days
Hiive-derived reportsn/an/a30 to 90 days

One secondary account says SpaceX's company window is 30 days and sometimes runs to 60. That claim is unverified, so treat it as a reason to plan for the long end, not as a fact about any particular company.

The three verdicts

VerdictWhat you foundWhat you do
Void-transfer policyA published notice that unapproved transfers are voidStop. Log the evidence and close the file
Tenders-onlyLiquidity runs through company tenders; no path to a direct saleDo not source holders. Watch the tender calendar
Open with ROFRNo void notice; standard ROFR in the documents or assumedProceed to sourcing, and budget for ROFR losses

Price ROFR as a real cost, not a rare event

In Hiive's platform statistics, ROFR was exercised on 18% of direct transfers in one year, up from 12% the year before, against a 72% company approval rate on direct transfers. Add the 10% that were canceled or otherwise not approved, and 28% of direct transfers that year did not deliver shares. You will see a general claim that 80 to 90% of secondary transactions end with the company waiving ROFR, but it comes with no methodology. Build your model on the documented figure.

One pattern deserves watching. ROFR exercise rose in the same period that Carta's tender count rose 62%. Companies running their own liquidity programs may have more reason to buy back blocked shares. That is a correlation, and the mechanism is my inference, not an established fact.

Transferability verdict log
Company:
Date of sweep:
Swept by:
Searches run (exact strings):
  - [Company] transfer restrictions void
  - [Company] SPV
  - [Company] secondary
  - Support center: shares / transfer / tokenized
Notices found (URL + screenshot file name, or "none found"):
Governing documents: [ROFR cascade and notice periods] OR "not public"
Tender in last 6 months: yes / no
Ex-employees eligible in last tender: yes / no / unknown
VERDICT: void-policy (stop) / tenders-only / open with ROFR
Reviewed by counsel (name, date):

One per target company; attach screenshots and keep it with the deal file.

Do former employees get to sell in company tenders?

Usually on worse terms than current employees, and often not at all. In the median tender administered on Carta over a three-and-a-half-year span, no former employees were eligible. That exclusion is exactly why former employees are the core population for a direct buyer.

A tender offer is a company-organized sale, often a buyback, in which eligible holders can sell a capped share of their stock. Tenders are now common. Carta counted 396 in one year, up 62% on the year before, and about 20% of the employees who sold in them were former employees of the company running the tender. The median buyback caps employee sales at 25%, and former employees can sell nothing in the median buyback.

MetricValueSource
Share of tender sellers who were ex-employees20%Carta
Ex-employees eligible in the median Carta tendernoneCarta
Median eligible share of vested holdings, former service providers28%Gunderson Dettmer (239 tenders)
Tenders that include former employeesabout 60%Unverified methodology

Eligibility rules can also be targeted. Rippling was reported to have barred former employees working at eight named competitors from its tender. Generic tender data will not tell you whether a given holder qualifies.

At the very top of the market, demand outruns supply. In one OpenAI tender, employees sold roughly $6.6 billion of stock and left $4 billion of buyer interest unfilled. If your target is in that tier, expect former employees to have choices and to be selective about buyers.

How tenders are announced to holders is not publicly established. In practice it happens through internal emails and equity portals. Record ex-employee eligibility as "unknown" until you have a press report or another direct source, and never let "unknown" quietly turn into "no".

Building the holder queue from public tenure records

Build the queue from employment history with dated end dates, not from "ex-" headlines. Aim for 25 to 50 rows, each with join date, leave date, and the title the person held at the target. Self-labeled profiles undercount the real pool and are polluted with people who never left.

1,428
US profiles in Refolk's index with "ex-Stripe" in the headline
That is a floor, not a census, because most alumni never put "ex-" in their headline.

Here is what self-labeled former employees look like in Refolk's index of professional profiles.

QueryTotalStill at named company (of 25)Founder/CEO titles (of 25)
ex-Stripe, US1,4285 (20%)5 (20%)
ex-Stripe, UK1584 (16%)2 (8%)
ex-Stripe, US, Director+4292 (8%)7 (28%)
ex-Databricks, US1,2636 (24%)4 (16%)

Three things follow from these figures.

  • Seniority is concentrated. 429 of the 1,428 US ex-Stripe profiles (30.0%) carry Director, VP, CXO, or Owner titles. Senior former employees are a sizable slice, not a handful.
  • Geography shrinks the pool fast. The UK count is 158, or 11.1% of the US count. If you are restricted to one jurisdiction, expect a far smaller queue.
  • Pools are comparable across large late-stage companies. Ex-Databricks US headlines come to 1,263, or 0.88x the ex-Stripe count, so a 25 to 50 row target is realistic for companies of that size.

Each row needs these fields:

  • Name and profile link
  • Title held at the target (not the current title)
  • Join date and leave date at the target
  • Evidence source for tenure and title
  • Current employer, with a flag if it is a competitor of the target
  • Location, for jurisdiction checks

The "ex-" headline as a signal: it proves the person identifies with the company. It lies when the person never left, which is true of 20% to 24% of the sampled profiles, or when the headline marks an internship or a short contract. The fix is to search employment history directly for people with an end date at the target. Refolk takes that request in plain English, such as people who held a role at a named company for a set number of years and then left, and returns profiles matched on employment history rather than on headline keywords. That removes the step of collecting "ex-" profiles and then throwing out the fifth that are still employed.

Vesting bands and timing flags

Every row gets two labels: a vesting band (low, medium, or high, with a confidence rating) estimated from tenure, level, and stage at join, and a timing flag (now, wait, or skip) drawn from exercise-window and tender dates. Together they rank the queue.

The vesting band

Inputs, in order of weight:

  1. Tenure at the target, measured against a standard multi-year vesting schedule
  2. Title held at the target, which sets the likely grant size
  3. Company stage when the person joined, since earlier joiners usually got larger percentage grants

The public benchmarks are thin. Carta reports a median first-engineer grant of 1.54%, with an interquartile range (the middle half of observations) of 0.61% to 3.5%. Those are startup grants. Level-by-level tables for late-stage companies exist only in secondary aggregators that cite their sources inconsistently. How far a tenure-based estimate lands from actual holdings is not publicly established. Report bands, give each a confidence rating, and never put a share count or percentage in a row. If you have private comparables, such as offer letters seen in other deals, use them to adjust confidence, not to produce a point estimate.

The timing flag

The timing flag rests on the post-termination exercise window. Incentive stock options (ISOs) keep their tax treatment under IRC Section 422 only if they are exercised within 90 days of leaving. Carta notes that three calendar months works out to 89 to 92 days depending on the time of year. Exercising ISOs can trigger alternative minimum tax on stock that cannot be sold. A holder in their first 90 days after leaving therefore needs cash at the same moment they face a deadline.

Extended windows remove that pressure. When a company extends the window, the options become non-qualified stock options (NSOs), but the holder keeps the right to exercise and loses the day-91 deadline. Pinterest was reported to have extended its window to seven years for employees with at least two years of tenure. Public lists of companies with extended windows exist, including the holman extended-exercise-windows repository on GitHub, Holloway, and Carta. The GitHub list has not been updated in years, so treat it as a lead to confirm, not a source.

Apply the labels this way:

  • Now: left within the last 90 days with no known extended window, or left earlier, holds exercised stock, and is shut out of tenders.
  • Wait: likely eligible for a confirmed upcoming tender, or still deciding whether to exercise. Recheck on a fixed date.
  • Skip: still employed at the target, no end date on the profile, or a band too low to justify the transaction cost.

Ranking holders by band and timing

NowWait or skip
Small and urgent
Contact if the queue is thin; expect small lots and keep the deal simple
Large and urgent
Contact first, with a cleared 1:1 message
Small and not ready
Drop from the active queue
Large and not ready
Hold, and recheck on tender and window dates
Low vesting bandHigh vesting band
Contact high-band holders who face a deadline or are shut out of tenders first, and keep the rest on a dated recheck.

Compliance clearance and first contact

Every message is 1:1 to a holder you have pre-qualified, counsel signs off the script before the first send, and the buyer is documented as accredited. Allow 2 to 5 days for review, and do not let deal pressure cut it short.

Under the Section 4(a)(7) resale exemption:

  • Each purchaser of the resold securities must be an accredited investor.
  • The securities may not be offered through general solicitation.
  • The seller must provide information such as updated financials.

The SEC also notes that a broker's Section 4(a)(4) exemption is not available when the broker knows, or has reasonable grounds to believe, that the seller's side of the transaction is not exempt. Intermediaries cannot look away from how the seller qualifies.

Some things this playbook cannot settle, because they are not publicly established in a form I can cite. These include exactly what triggers broker-dealer registration for a buyer who sources sellers, what confidential company information a seller may share, and how individual companies bar current employees from selling. Put them to counsel directly. Latham and Watkins' paper on legal issues for broker-dealers in private secondary trading is a useful starting point for that conversation.

First-contact message to a former employee (submit to compliance before use)
Hi [first name],

I saw you were at [company] as [title at company] from [start year] to [end year].

I am an accredited investor and I am writing to you individually, not as part of a broad offering. I am interested in buying a small number of [company] common shares from former employees, if you hold vested and exercised stock and are open to selling.

Any purchase would go through [company]'s transfer process, including its right of first refusal, so the company would need to approve the transfer. Please do not send me any confidential company information.

If this is of interest, I am happy to set up a short call. If not, no reply is needed and I will not follow up more than once.

[Your name]
[Fund or entity name]

Personalize only the bracketed fields; any change to the other lines goes back through review.

Once terms are agreed, the deal moves into the company's process. Most of the elapsed time sits here, and so does most of the risk of not delivering.

From agreed terms to delivered shares

  1. 1:1 contact
    A cleared message goes to a pre-qualified holder labeled now
  2. Terms agreed
    Price and share count agreed, subject to company approval
  3. Transfer notice
    The seller files notice with the company, which starts the clock
  4. Company ROFR window
    The company decides whether to buy at your terms
  5. Investor window
    Investors may take any shares the company passes on
  6. Close or lose
    Shares deliver to you, or the deal goes to ROFR or cancellation
After terms are agreed, the company and then its investors get a chance to take the deal, which is why 28% of direct transfers failed to deliver in one documented year.

How this goes wrong: failure modes and false positives

Most failed direct-secondary pipelines fail in the same handful of ways. Each one below names what goes wrong, why it fools people, and the check that catches it.

  • Missing a void notice. A clean search of the investor pages is a false negative, because these policies appear on support pages and in press coverage. Check: search the company name plus "transfer restrictions" plus "void", search the support center, and screenshot every result page with the date. If you miss this, the buyer bears the loss, because under a void policy the seller can keep the shares and the money.
  • Keyword-matched holders who never left. In Refolk's index, 20% of the sampled ex-Stripe US profiles and 24% of the sampled ex-Databricks US profiles still list that company as their current employer. Check: require an end date at the target on the profile itself. A headline is not evidence.
  • Founder titles inflating the band. In the Director-and-above ex-Stripe sample, 28% are now founders or CEOs. A current title says nothing about the level someone held at the target, and a founder title invites a high band nobody earned there. Check: score only the title held at the target, taken from the dated employment entry.
  • A vesting band presented as precise. The only public benchmarks are startup grants, such as the 0.61% to 3.5% first-engineer range, and the error of tenure-based estimates is not publicly established. A share count in a row looks like diligence and is really a guess. Check: bands with confidence ratings only, and make sure nobody upstream turns a band into a price.
  • Misreading the 90-day flag. A holder inside the window may hold unexercised options, not stock. Holders under an extended window, such as Pinterest's reported seven years, have no deadline at all. Check: confirm exercise status in the first conversation, and check the company against the public extended-window lists before you label anyone "now".
  • Assuming tender eligibility. The median Carta buyback excludes former employees entirely, and Rippling excluded people who had joined competitors. "Wait for the tender" sounds patient and can turn into a lost deal. Check: confirm eligibility from a direct source before you use a tender as the reason to delay. Otherwise the flag stays "unknown".
  • A script that counts as general solicitation. Templated mass outreach can break 4(a)(7) and put the whole trade at risk. Check: 1:1 messages to pre-qualified holders only, a compliance sign-off on file, and a send log showing who received what and when.
  • Pricing ROFR as rare. The "80 to 90% waived" figure has no methodology. Hiive's documented non-delivery rate is 28%. Check: size the queue and your capital commitments on the assumption that more than one deal in four may not deliver.

Keeping the queue current

A holder queue goes stale quickly. Exercise windows close, tenders get announced, and companies publish new policies. Re-run the policy sweep before every term sheet, refresh timing flags on a fixed weekly cadence, and re-source when a top-quadrant row drops out.

Three dates drive the refresh:

  • Each row's departure date plus 90 days. That is when a "now" row usually becomes a "wait" or a "skip".
  • Any announced or reported tender. It can move rows from "now" to "wait", and it can signal that the company is about to tighten its stance on direct transfers.
  • The date of your last policy sweep. A verdict is a snapshot, so date it and treat anything older than your current deal cycle as expired.

Departures keep happening, so the "left in the last 90 days" slice refills on its own. Re-running the same plain-English search in Refolk each week picks up new leavers without rebuilding the list. Use the checklist below before you call a queue ready to send.

Before the first message goes out

  • The file holds a dated screenshot of the policy sweep, including the company name plus "transfer restrictions" plus "void" search.
  • The verdict is recorded as void-policy, tenders-only, or open with ROFR, and the deal is proceeding only on "open with ROFR".
  • The ROFR cascade and notice periods are logged, or explicitly marked "not public".
  • The tender flag records whether a tender ran in the last 6 months and whether ex-employees were eligible: yes, no, or unknown.
  • Every queue row has an end date at the target on the profile, not only an "ex-" headline.
  • Every row's level is the title held at the target, not the current title.
  • Every vesting band is a band with a confidence rating, and no row carries a point estimate.
  • Every row is labeled now, wait, or skip, with the reason and a recheck date.
  • The buyer's accredited status is documented.
  • The first-contact script carries a dated compliance sign-off, and every send is logged as a 1:1 message.
  • The deal model assumes some agreed trades will not deliver because of ROFR or cancellation.

Questions practitioners ask

How do I find sellers for secondary shares in a specific private company?

Start with former employees, not current ones, and only after you have confirmed the company allows direct transfers. Build the list from employment history with dated end dates at the target, not from "ex-" headlines, because in Refolk's index 20% to 24% of sampled "ex-" profiles still list the company as their current employer. Rank by tenure, title held at the target, and timing, then contact each person individually with a script compliance has cleared.

How long does a right of first refusal take for a secondary buyer?

Plan on 30 to 90 days from the seller's transfer notice to closing, the range reported from Hiive's transfer data. Under one reading of the NVCA model, the company has 15 days after notice to exercise and investors then have 10 days, inside a 45-day notice period. Another reading puts the company window at 30 days. Read the company's own ROFR agreement wherever it is public, and mark it "not public" where it is not.

What happens if I buy shares the company says cannot be transferred?

Under a void-transfer policy the trade may simply not exist in the company's eyes, and the loss falls on you. Gabriel Shapiro has noted that under such policies sellers can keep both the shares and the money, while buyers can only seek recourse upstream. That is why this playbook makes the transferability check the first step and treats a void-policy finding as a hard stop, not a pricing input.

Why does the post-termination exercise window matter to a buyer?

It tells you whether a former employee faces a deadline and whether they hold stock or still unexercised options. ISOs generally have to be exercised within 90 days of leaving to keep ISO status, which in practice means 89 to 92 days. Holders inside that window face a cash squeeze. Holders under an extended window, such as Pinterest's reported seven years for two-year employees, have no forced deadline and are less urgent.

Can I send a templated message to every former employee I find?

No. Mass templated outreach risks being treated as general solicitation, which the Section 4(a)(7) resale exemption prohibits. Send 1:1 messages only, to holders you have pre-qualified, using a script that counsel or compliance has signed off and that you keep on file. Section 4(a)(7) also requires every purchaser to be accredited, so record your own accreditation before the first message goes out.

Should I wait for a company tender before contacting former employees?

Only if you have confirmed former employees are eligible, and in many tenders they are not. In the median tender administered on Carta, no ex-employees have been eligible to take part, and Rippling was reported to have excluded former employees who had joined competitors. Gunderson's review found that where former service providers could sell, the median eligible share of vested holdings was 28%. Mark eligibility as unknown until you can confirm it.

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